Bihari Idioms and Proverbs for BPSC Mains Essay

BPSC Mains Essay paper consists of 3 sections for 100 marks each where the candidate has to write an essay from each section.

Section III consistes of Bihali Idoms and proverbs

Social Behaviour, Family & Community

  • अकेले मियाँ रोवें की कबर खानें।
    Explanation: Literally: “Will the lone husband cry or dig the grave?”
  • अपनी गली में त एगो कुत्ता शेर होला। / अपनी दुआरे, कुतवो बरिआरे।
    Explanation: “Even a local dog is a lion in its own lane.” People feel confident or brave in their own familiar environment. Also speaks to local prestige and overestimation of local status.
  • अपनी दही के केहु खट नाहीं कहेला।
    Explanation: “No one calls their own curd sour.” People are biased in favor of their own possessions or family—subjective attachment and defensiveness of one’s possessions/children/work.
  • आपन इज्जत अपनी हाथे में हअ।
    Explanation: “Your honor is in your own hands.” Self-responsibility for dignity and reputation; emphasizes individual agency and ethics.
  • घर में दिया बारी के, मंदिर में दिया बारल जाला।
    Explanation: “Light the lamp at home before the temple.” Priority to one’s immediate duties and responsibilities before grand gestures. Means: take care of basic responsibilities first.
  • बिनु घरनी, घर भूत के डेरा। / बिनु घरनी, घर भूत के डेरा।
    Explanation: “Without a woman, a house feels like a ghost’s abode.” Cultural recognition of women’s central role in making a home functional and meaningful.
  • हम चराईं दिल्ली, हमरा के चरावे घर के बिल्ली।
    Explanation: “We fooled Delhi, but the house cat is trying to fool me”
  • बेटा अउरी लोटा बाहर चमकेला।
    Explanation: “A son and a pot shine only outside.” External appearance vs internal reality: honor is often visible only in public. Commonly used to say children gain honor outside the home.
  • घटिया के चीज के गाँव में बढ़-चढ़ के बतावला (उखड़े बार नाहीं अउरी बरियार खाँव नाव)।
    Explanation: People often boast or claim importance despite little substance—“mud-showing” or hollow swagger..

Category B — Morality, Ethics & Hypocrisy

  • आन्हर कुकुर बतासे भोंके।
    Explanation: “A blind dog barks even at a breeze” — people raise alarms or criticize without knowledge. It pinpoints loud, ignorant criticism.
  • घाट-घाट का पानी पी के होखल बड़का संत.
    Explanation: Those who experice water of multiple cities they aquire sainthood
  • साँच के आँच नाहीं लागेला।
    Explanation: “Truth does not get harmed by fire.” Truth endures; a proverb about moral courage and ultimate vindication.
  • चाल करेले सिधरिया अउरी रोहुआ की सीरे बितेला (गलती कोई और, पकड़ा कोई और)।
    Explanation: Someone makes the move but someone else bears the cost—scapegoating and injustice.
  • कुकुरे के पोंछी केतनो घी लगाव उ टेड़े के टेड़े रही।
    Explanation: “No matter how much ghee you apply to a dog’s tail, it will remain crooked.” Nature doesn’t change; inherent traits persist.
  • सूप त सूप चलनियो हँसे जवने में छपन गो छेद।
    Explanation: “those with more holes laugh at others with hole.”
  • साँचे कहले साथ छुटेला।
    Explanation: “If you speak the truth, you lose friends.” Truth-telling can isolate one; social cost of honesty.

Category C — Governance, Justice & Leadership

  • घोड़ा की पिछाड़ी अउरी हाकिम की अगाड़ी कबो नाहीं जाए के चाहीं।
    Explanation: “Never walk behind a horse nor ahead of an official.” Respect hierarchies and avoid challenging positions that bring danger or awkwardness. It also captures the need to be mindful of authority.
  • हाथी चले बाजार, कुकुर भौंके हजार।
    Explanation: “When an elephant goes to market, thousands of dogs bark.” Focus on the serious work rather than noisy critics. Leaders should remain focused.
  • लात के देवता बाती से ना माने। / लाती का देवता / लात के देवता बाती से नाहीं मानलें।
    Explanation: “A deity of kicks (force) won’t be persuaded by words” — sometimes force or strong action is the only thing that works. This proverb is used to justify strong measures when persuasion fails.
  • कहला से धोबी गदहा पर ना चढ़े।
    Explanation: “You can’t make a washer sit on a donkey by telling him.” Some people act only by their own will, not by persuasion.
  • बनले के साथी सब केहू ह अउरी बिगड़ले के केहू ना।
    Explanation: “When one prospers, many friends; when one falls, nobody stays.” Commentary on fair-weather friends and the fickleness of social support.
  • करब केतनो लाखी उपाई, बिधि के लिखल बाँव न जाई।
    Explanation: “No matter how many remedies you try, what is ordained by fate will happen.” Folk belief in destiny.
  • बाबन बुधि (बाभन बुधी).
    Explanation: “Brahmin wit” — implying cleverness or cunning tied to learned classes. Sometimes used ironically to denote slyness.
  • सब धन बाईसे पसेरी.
    Explanation: “All wealth is equal” — final equality or satire on uniformity among corrupt.


Category D — Agrarian Wisdom, Seasons & Work

  • आगे के खेती आगे-आगे, पछिला खेती भागे जागे / आगे के खेती आगे-आगे, पीछे के खेती भागे जागे।
    Explanation: Planting at the correct time ensures good results; late or untimely cultivation depends on luck. Agricultural proverb about timing and seasons.
  • खेत खाय गदहा, मारल जाय जोलहा.
    Explanation: “The donkey eats the field, the peasant gets punished.” Farm laborers/servants causing damage while the owner suffers. More generally, injustice in which the wrong person is penalized.
  • खेत, बेटी, गाभिन गाय — जे ना देखे ओकर जाय।
    Explanation: “Fields, daughters, and pregnant cows need supervision or they go astray.” Emphasizes need for watchfulness on valuable resources.
  • धन के बढ़ल अछा हS, मन के बढ़ल नाहीं।
    Explanation: “Increase in money is good, but increase in mind (ego) is not.” Material growth is fine but moral/ethical growth is vital.
    Essay tip: Use in balanced development essays—economic growth must be matched by ethical maturity and social responsibility.
  • धान गिरे बढ़ भाग, गेहूँ गिरे दुरभाग।
    Explanation: “If paddy falls, it means a good yield; if wheat falls, it means a bad yield.” Agricultural observation about crop behavior and implications.
  • खेतियार गइने घर दाएँ-बाएँ हर।
    Explanation: When the worker/owner leaves, others slack off. Indicates tendency for shirking in absence of supervision.
  • खड़ी खेती, गाभिन गाय — तब जान जब मुँह में जाय।
    Explanation: One can’t trust a crop/pregnant cow until harvest/birth is realized — uncertainty persists. Folk caution about premature optimism.
  • धन के बढ़ल अच्छा ह, मन के बढ़ल नाहीं।
    Explanation: Money growth is fine but ego/inflation of mind is not. (Reprise)
  • गइल भैंस पानी में।
    Explanation: “Loss occurred” — a local shorthand for damage or loss.
  • माघ के टूटल मरद अउरी भादो के टूटल बरध कबो नाहीं जुटेलें।
    Explanation: (Seasonal-health observation) Men broken in Magh, bulls in Bhadon—once health is lost in certain seasons it doesn’t return. Folk observation about seasonal vulnerability.
  • नव नगद ना तेरह उधार.
    Explanation: “If no new cash, take thirteen on credit” — speaks to reciprocity and informal credit norms.
  • गाइ बाँधी के राखल जाले साड़ नाहीं।
    Explanation: “A cow is tied, a bull isn’t” — suggesting greater control over
  • गाइ ओसर अउरी भैंस दोसर।
    Explanation: “A cow at first calving and the buffalo at second are best” — empirical livestock wisdom.
  • मुरुगा ना रही त बिहाने नाहीं होई
    Explanation: “If rooster doesn’t crow, doesnt mean morning won’t come” —


Category E — Folly, Greed & Waste

  • नव के लकड़ी, नब्बे खरच. / नौ के लकड़ी, नब्बे खर्च।
    Explanation: “New wood costs nine, (contradiction) ninety are spent.” Sign of wasteful expenditure on the new, foolish spending.
  • नवकि में नव के पुरनकी में ठाढ़े — नये-नये को इज्जत देना।
    Explanation: Newcomers get respect—people often flatter novelty.
  • एक हाथ के ककरी अउरी नौ हाथ के बिआ।
    Explanation: Tall tales or exaggeration; making small matters sound huge.
  • करजा के खाइल अउरी पुअरा के तापल बराबरे हS.
    Explanation: “Eating on credit and warming straw are equivalent” — debt-driven consumption is as futile as warming straw. Advises against unnecessary debt.
  • लाद दऽ लदवा दऽ, घरे ले पहुँचवा दऽ.
    Explanation: “Load up and send it home” — greed, obsession with accumulation.
  • अक्किल गईल घास चरे
    Explanation: Literally “wit gone grazing grass.” Means someone has lost the ability to think — acting mindlessly.
  • आखिर संख बाजल बाकिर बाबाजी के पदा के
    Explanation: “The conch finally sounded, but only after great effort by the priest.” Too much effort needed
  • इस्क अउरी मुस्क छिपवले से नाहीं छीपेला (इश्क अउरी मुस्क)
    Explanation: “Love and musk cannot be hidden” — certain truths will surface.
  • इहे छउड़ी इहे गाँव, पूछे छउड़ी कवन गाँव
    Explanation: Pretending ignorance of your own place—feigning innocence.
  • उखड़े बार नाहीं अउरी बरियार खाँव नाव
    Explanation: “can’t even uproot a hair but a brave name” — fake valor; appearance without substance.

  • काहे अंधरा के जगले अउरी का ओकरी सुतले
    Explanation: “What difference between a blind person’s waking and sleeping?” — something pointless or ineffective.
  • का कहीं कुछ कही ना जाता अउरी कहले बिना रही ना जाता
    Explanation: “One cannot remain silent nor keep saying things” — exasperation; situation intolerable.
  • केरा (केला), केकड़ा, बिछू, बाँस इ चारो की जमले नाश
    Explanation: “These four will cause ruin” — traditional warning about certain combinations that bring trouble.

  • कानी बिना रहलो न जाये, कानी के देख के अंखियो पेराए
    Explanation: “One cannot either see or live without seeing”
  • आपन पेट त सुअरियो पाली लेले।
    Explanation: “Even a pig can feed its belly” — anyone can look after their own needs; no praise in self-preservation.
    Essay tip: Use to critique self-centered policy behavior; emphasize solidarity and public-spiritedness.
  • आन की धन पर तीन टिकुली / आन की धन पर तेल बुकुवा / आन के दाना हींक लगाके खाना
    Explanation: Series about living off others’ wealth and enjoying it without contribution.
  • नव नगद ना तेरह उधार
    Explanation: If there is no new cash, buy on credit — informal credit norms and indebtedness.
    Essay tip: Use for essays on rural indebtedness, microfinance pitfalls, and need for regulated credit.
  • अबर के मेहरारू गाँवभरी के भउजाई
    Explanation: The weak woman becomes everyone’s mockery—social exploitation of vulnerable people.
  • मन मोरा चंचल, जिअरा उदास
    Explanation: Restless mind and sad heart — human frailty and desire.
  • गइल जवानी फिर ना लौटी
    Explanation: Youth irrecoverable — invest early.
    Essay tip: Use to support spending on education, skilling and youth employment schemes.
  • साँपे के काटल रसियो देखी के डेराला
    Explanation: “Once bitten, twice shy” style proverb — trauma affects future behaviour..
  • मारे छोहन छाती फाटे अउरी आँसू के ठेकाने नाहीं
    Explanation: Grappling with deep emotion—used to describe intense grief or feigned sorrow.

Category F — Fate, Luck & Human Condition

  • भाग वाला के भूत हर जोतेला.
    Explanation: “Fortune follows the lucky.” Good luck makes tasks easier—some people have persistent fortune.
  • कर्म फूटे त फटे बेवाय.
    Explanation: “When fate is broken, even the rope will snap” — when misfortune is on someone, everything goes wrong.
  • गइल जवानी फिर ना लौटी, चाहें घी, मलीदा खा.
    Explanation: “Youth gone never returns — eat ghee or crumbs.” A reflection on the irretrievability of youth/time, urging prudent use of one’s prime.
  • एक हाथ के ककरी अउरी नौ हाथ के बिआ। (reprise)
    Explanation: Making small things appear large.
    Essay tip: Use to show media/political exaggeration and need for evidence-based claims.
  • गढि़या के मनवले डांगर नाहीं मरेला।
    Explanation: “Even if you appease, the stubborn beast won’t die” — some problems persist despite efforts.
    Essay tip: Use in governance to explain why occasional remedies fail; need structural reform.
  • करिया बाभन गोर चमार।
    Explanation: “Black Brahmin and fair-skinned cobbler” — pointing out absurd contradictions; used to mock hypocrisy or identity confusion.
    Essay tip: Use carefully to discuss complex social identities and how simplistic labels fail policy targeting.
  • ऊँची दुकान फिस्का पकवान — ऊँची दुकान फीका पकवान.
    Explanation: Big show, poor substance.
    Essay tip: Use when criticizing token projects or vanity infrastructure lacking utility.
  • अकला गईल घास चरे।
    Explanation: “Intellect gone, grazing grass” — losing capacity to think/reflect; folly.
    Essay tip: Use to emphasize the need for critical thinking in education reform.
  • गइल जवानी फिर ना लौटी। (reprise)
    Explanation: Youth does not return; invest it wisely.
    Essay tip: Argue for investment in youth education, skilling, and health.
  • भूखे भजन ना होई गोपाला।
    Explanation: Spiritual activity or productivity cannot happen on an empty stomach. Basic needs first.
    Essay tip: Use as a human-centered policy thesis: ensure basic consumption before higher-order outcomes are expected.
  • रोजो कुँआ खोदS अउरी रोजो पानी पीअS।
    Explanation: “Dig a well daily and drink daily” — live in present, don’t obsess about future possibilities. Advice on pragmatism.
    Essay tip: Use in context of behavioral insights: short-termism vs long-term planning; design nudges that balance both.

  • रोग के जड़ खांसी।
    Explanation: “Cough is the root of many illnesses.” Public-health wisdom about primary infections leading to bigger problems.
  • सौ पापे बाघ मरेला।
    Explanation: “A hundred sins kill the tiger” — even the mighty die eventually; excess leads to downfall.
    Essay tip: Use in governance to comment that sustained corruption/excess leads to eventual collapse—need for institutional safeguards.
  • गइल माघ दिन उनतीस बाकी
    Explanation: Time passes quickly—literal observation about months but basically “time flies.”
    Essay tip: Use in essays on urgency in policy implementation (climate action urgency).
  • अभागा गइने ससुरारी अउरी उहवों माँड़े-भात।
    Explanation: “The unlucky person goes to in-laws and gets bad food too” — total misfortune.
    Essay tip: Use compellingly in social safety net arguments.
  • भगवान के घर में देर बा, अंधेर नाहीं।
    Explanation: “God’s house may be late but not dark” — justice delayed but not denied.
    Essay tip: Use as hope motif in judicial reform essays advocating patience plus reform.
  • सौ पापे बाघ मरेला
    Explanation: Even the mighty fall by repeated sins — limit of power and impunity.
    Essay tip: Use for anti-corruption case that sustained wrongdoing erodes strength; need for deterrence.
  • पहेले दिन पहुना, दूसरे दिन ठेहुना, तीसरे दिन केहुना
    Explanation: Long stay at relatives reduces honor; hospitality norms are time-bound.
    Essay tip: Use to examine social norms around hospitality and migration/urban-rural dynamics.


Category G — Practical Wisdom & Advice

  • मन चंगा त कठवती में गंगा।
    Explanation: “If the mind is pure, even a humble spot is like the Ganga.” Emphasizes inner purity over external trappings.
    Essay tip: Use in moral education discussions—value ethics and internal reform in governance (culture of integrity rather than just laws).
  • खाली बाती से काम नाहीं चलेला।
    Explanation: “Only talk doesn’t do work.” Practical action beats empty talk.
  • पेटवे सब कुछ करावेला.
    Explanation: “Hunger makes one do anything.” Necessity drives actions that might be unsavory; the power of basic needs.
    Essay tip: Use to emphasize anti-poverty measures—food security is foundational; without it, ethical choices disintegrate.
  • आखिर संख बाजल बाकिर बाबाजी के पदा के।
    Explanation: “Finally the conch sounded but for the priest’s benefit” — work gets done but primarily for a specific person’s benefit. Suggests elite capture of collective action.
    Essay tip: Use to highlight capture of public resources by elites; argue for community participation and transparency.
  • मईरे, मन मोरा बसे इयरवा के पास (example: मन मोरा चंचल) — variations about mind and feelings.
    Explanation: Many proverbs describe the fickle, restless mind—indicating emotional states.
    Essay tip: Use in essays about governance psychology: policymakers’ emotional biases affect decisions; emphasize behavioral insights to craft better policy.
  • काग के कहले कान लेगइल तs आपन कान टोवबs आकि कौआ की पीछे दउड़बs।
    Explanation: On rumours: don’t chase the crow—verify reality not rumours.
    Essay tip: Use to argue for evidence-based policymaking and against rumour-driven reactions (e.g., during pandemics).
  • कनवा के देखि के अँखियो फूटे अउरी कनवा बिना रहलो न जाए।
    Explanation: Hating someone intensely yet being unable to live without them—complex social dependence.
    Essay tip: Use to highlight social complexity in family ties and policy design that assumes simplicity.
  • नया-नया दुलहिन के नया-नया चाल।
    Explanation: New bride’s new ways—early enthusiasm and novelty.
    Essay tip: Use as metaphor for new policies or reforms and risk of novelty over substance; argue for consolidation.
  • कोरा में लइका अउरी गाँवभरी ढ़िढोरा।
    Explanation: A child on the lap, the whole village makes a search — collective gossipy behavior.
  • हाथे में पैसा रहेला तब बुधियो काम करेले।
    Explanation: When money is in hand, even the wise act—illustrates role of incentives.
    Essay tip: Use as a lead-in to discuss financial incentives in public service delivery (e.g., conditional cash transfers).
  • दूधारू गाय के लातो सहल जाला।
    Explanation: If a cow gives milk, its kicks are tolerated—people tolerate certain harms if there is benefit.
    Essay tip: Use to analyze tolerance for corrupt officials if they deliver benefits; argue for balanced accountability.
  • अँखिये ना तs क्या बताइब (variants on blindness/ignorance proverbs)
    Explanation: Many local proverbs emphasise the folly of ignorance.
    Essay tip: Use to underline education and awareness as foundations of social progress.
  • एक बोलावे तेरह धावे.
    Explanation: “Call once and thirteen come” — describes the urgency or greed of some (e.g., Brahmins described as eager for food/gifts).
    Essay tip: Use to discuss clientelism—how patronage networks respond to benefits.
  • उधर न निकरब, इधर न निकरब (variants meaning “neither here nor there”)
    Explanation: Being indecisive or stuck between options.
    Essay tip: Use to argue for decisive policy and clear implementation frameworks.
  • निनहर के सारा बाटे (variants on helplessness of the unlucky)
    Explanation: Many proverbs lament helplessness—something that goes beyond individual control.
    Essay tip: Use to make a compassionate case for social safety nets.
  • काई दा तू फुर्र फुर्र (local jest variants)
    Explanation: Jesting, mocking sayings exemplifying local humor.
    Essay tip: Use as cultural flourish in essays to demonstrate living familiarity with local contexts—don’t overuse.
  • बीछी के मंतरिए ना जाने अउरी साँपे की बिल में हाथ डाले।
    Explanation: “One who doesn’t know a scorpion’s charm sticks hand into a snake’s hole” — ignorance leading to danger.
    Essay tip: Use in public awareness campaigns: emphasize importance of training, education, and risk communication.
  • नाईं चिन त नाया कीन।
    Explanation: “If you don’t know it, buy new” — better new than counterfeit/unknown. Advocates caution in dealing with unknowns.
    Essay tip: Use in consumer protection or procurement fairness essays—prefer authenticated goods/services.
  • मन मोरा बसे इयरवा के पास (emotional proverb reprise)
    Explanation: Restless mind finds solace near friends—on human relationships.
    Essay tip: Humanize an essay about public service motivation and mental health support systems for civil servants.
  • बईठले ले बेगारी भला
    Explanation: “Better idle than beggared” — avoids extremes of idleness vs humiliation. Often suggests dignity.
    Essay tip: Link to livelihood programs (MGNREGA) that preserve dignity of labor while preventing destitution.
  • नौ के लकड़ी, नब्बे खरच
    Explanation: A proverb on irrational overspending.
  • खिचड़ी खात के नीक लागे अउरी बटुली माजत के पेट फाटे
    Explanation: “Khichdi tastes good, but when you clean pots it’s tiring.” Enjoyment and the unseen effort.
  • खाली बाती — action required (short tag)
    Explanation & tip: Use as a repeated refrain to press for results orientation in governance.


Category H — Irony, Mockery & Social Critique

  • जेकर बनरिया उहे नचावे, दूसर नचावे त काटे धावे.
    Explanation: “He who owns the instrument plays it; if others play, he cuts/punishes them.” Ownership allows control and abuse of power.
  • कुत्ता काटे अनजान के अउरी बनिया काटे पहचान के।
    Explanation: “A dog bites the stranger; a merchant cheats the one he knows.” The familiar can exploit you more because of trust.
    Essay tip: Use when discussing informal credit systems and the exploitation risk in patron–client relationships.
  • कफन में जेब ना, दफन में भेव.
    Explanation: “No pocket in the shroud; in the grave one’s worth is different.” Death equalizes wealth — material wealth irrelevant in the end.
  • लाठी की मार भुला जाला लेकिन बाती के नाहीं।
    Explanation: “One forgets a beating but not the sting of words.” Words cause deeper wounds than physical punishment.
  • साँपे के काटल रसियो देखी के डेराला.
    Explanation: “One who was bitten by a snake fears to even look at a rope” — trauma consequences and risk aversion.
  • ए कुकुर तू काहें दूबर, दू घर के आवाजाई।
    Explanation: “O dog, you are not useless, you belong to two houses” — people who belong nowhere.
  • ए जबाना में पइसवे भगवान बाs।
    Explanation: “In this age money is God” — cynicism about materialism.
  • लाठी कपारे भेंट नाहीं अउरी बाप-बाप चिल्ला
    Explanation: “If stick doesn’t work, the father shouts” — spectacle to compensate for lack of action.
    Essay tip: Use to criticise showy enforcement that lacks substantive remedy.
  • बनला के सभे इयार, बिगड़ला के केहू ना
    Explanation: “When successful many friends; when in trouble none.”
    Essay tip: Use to discuss social capital dynamics and recommend community-based insurance.

Category I — Proverbs About Learning & Knowledge

  • अंडा सिखावे बच्चा के, बच्चा करु चेंव-चेंव.
    Explanation: Teaching the ignorant to teach the wise — the absurdity of misguided teaching.
    Essay tip: Use to discuss poor teacher training or top-down initiatives that lack content competence. Argue for capacity building.

  • कोदो देके नइखीं पढ़ले।
    Explanation: “No amount of small pay (millet) will make one read” — someone won’t learn just by little bait; also implies skill and interest matter.
    Essay tip: Use to argue for meaningful incentives and quality of teaching rather than token stipends.
  • आधा माघे कंबर काँधे
    Explanation: Half the month of Magh (mid-winter) the blanket is on the shoulder — seasonal notes. Means conditions change.
    Essay tip: Use to discuss adaptation to seasonal vulnerabilities (health/energy policy).
  • अंडा सिखावे बच्चा के, ए बच्चा तू चेंव-चेंव करअ
    Explanation: Teaching the ignorant to teach — absurdity of misguided instruction. (Reprise)
    Essay tip: Useful case for education quality, not just access.
  • कोदो देके नइखीं पढ़ले
    Explanation: “One wasn’t made literate by offering only millet” — material incentives alone don’t build skills.
    Essay tip: Apply to conditional cash transfers vs. quality investments in schooling.
  • गुरु गुड़ रह गइलन, चेला चीनी हो गइले
    Explanation: Disciples surpassing teachers (mentor loses relevance) — sometimes mentors get left behind.
    Essay tip: Use in HR and capacity building: continuous training needed for all levels.
  • काठ के हड़िया चढ़े न दूजो बार
    Explanation: “You can’t mount a wooden saddle twice” — one-time exploitability.
    Essay tip: Use in resource exploitation context — sustainable use is one-time if abused.


Category J — Miscellaneous Practical Sayings

  • ना चलनी में पानी आइ ना मूंजी के बरहा बराई।
    Explanation: “Neither water will pass through the sieve nor will the pith of reed take shape” — impossible task.
    Essay tip: Good to describe policy impossibilities; be realistic in promises.
  • पेट कबो नाहीं भरेला.
    Explanation: “The stomach never gets full” — human greed and insatiability.
  • मन मोरा चंचल, जिअरा उदास.
    Explanation: “My mind is restless, heart sad.” Emotional proverb about restlessness and longing.
    Essay tip: Use as a humanizing line in personal-philosophical essays on public service motivation and stress.

  • आसमाने में थूकबS त मुँहवे पर आई।
    Explanation: Doing something against nature will boomerang on you.
    Essay tip: Use in ethics/anti-corruption—misdeeds return to harm the doer.
  • ओस के चटला से पिआस ना मिटे
    Explanation: “Licking dew won’t quench thirst” — half measures won’t solve big problems.
    Essay tip: Use to argue for scale in public investments.
  • ना खेले देइबी, खेलिए बिगाड़बी
    Explanation: “If I don’t play, I won’t let others play — I’ll ruin the game” — obstructionist behavior.
    Essay tip: Use to describe obstructionist politics; recommend institutional dispute-resolution.
  • कान में (कानी के कच्चा)
    Explanation: Naïve, easily fooled person.
    Essay tip: Use to push for financial literacy & consumer protection.
  • देही ना दासा गाड़ी तेलवासा
    Explanation: “If body lacks beauty, still will dress with oil” — critique of vanity compensation.
    Essay tip: Use for cultural critiques and consumer behaviour analysis.
  • रोजो कुँआ खोदS अउरी रोजो पानी पीअS (reprise)
    Tip: Pragmatism vs speculation—policy focus on day-to-day solid progress.

Family, Gender & Social Norms (परिवार, लिंग और सामाजिक प्रथा)

  • बिनु घरनी, घर भूत के डेरा। (reprise)
    Explanation: House without woman is like a ghost-house — women central to a household’s life.
    Essay tip: Use to highlight women’s invisible work and argue for policy recognition (care economy, unpaid work measurement).
  • आन की धन पर तेल बुकुआ।
    Explanation: “Enjoying someone else’s wealth” — living off others’ resources with pleasure.
    Essay tip: Use to discuss dependency and exploitative patterns (e.g., middlemen capturing smallholder gains) and recommend reforms to return value to producers.
  • गइयो हाँ अउरी भैंसियो हाँ।
    Explanation: Saying for uncritical agreement—affirming both right and wrong. Points to thoughtless conformity.
    Essay tip: Apply to conformity in governance: caution against yes-men culture; advocate for dissent and accountability.
  • बेटा के भुजा अउरी दमादे के जाउर।
    Explanation: Son is offered simple favor (kurmura), son-in-law is given rich treat — shows favoritism to in-laws over sons in some contexts.
    Essay tip: Use in essays on kinship dynamics and how social norms shape resource distribution in families.
  • भाई बहिन संबंध: जेकर बहिन अंदर ओकर भाई सिकन्दर।
    Explanation: Brother enjoys freedom at sister’s house (close kin privilege).
    Essay tip: Use when discussing kinship-led social support networks, and how they influence migration, care, and obligations.
  • घर फूटे जवार लूटे।
    Explanation: When a house breaks (family quarrel), outsiders loot—internal discord invites external exploitation.
    Essay tip: Use to stress the importance of social cohesion for community resilience and governance stability.
  • बुढ़वा भतार पर पाँची गो टिकुली।
    Explanation: Old husband given five tikka — doing unnecessary ornaments/favors to an old spouse—implies misapplied efforts.
    Essay tip: Use as an example that policies should match needs (age-appropriate benefits) rather than tradition-based allocations.
  • बेटी के बेटा कवने काम, खइहें इहँवा चेटइहें गाँव।
    Explanation: Daughter’s son is of little use—he will eat here and go back to his village—comment on migration and patrilocal norms.
    Essay tip: Use in gendered migration discussions; argue for policies that care for daughters and recognize the value they bring to natal households.
  • बाप ओझा अउरी माई डाइन
    Explanation: Father as healer, mother as witch — paradoxical view of parents (ironic).
    Essay tip: Use to examine contradictory folk beliefs about parental roles and the need for health literacy.
  • बेटा के भुजा अउरी दमादे के जाउर
    Explanation: Preferential treatment to damad (in-law) vs own offspring — highlights complex family hierarchies.
    Essay tip: Use when discussing kinship-based resource allocation and implications for social welfare.
  • बकरि के माई कबले खर जिउतिया मनाई
    Explanation: “How long will a goat’s mother observe ritual?” – things will happen as meant; fatalism.
    Essay tip: Use to reflect on fatalistic attitudes that deter proactive behaviour—policy implication: social-behaviour change communication.
  • बढ़ रहती बतिअवले अउरी छोट जाती लतिअवले
    Explanation: Respectful speech works; violence works on the uncultured.
    Essay tip: Promote soft skills in leadership; stress moral education.
  • बेटा अउरी लोटा बाहरे चमकेला
    Explanation: The son shines outside — migration and remittance prestige.
    Essay tip: Use in migration essays: remittances’ role in rural uplift and social mobility.

Category: Ethics, Hypocrisy & Character (नैतिकता, दोहरा मानक)

  • साँच के आँच नाहीं लागेला। (reprise)
    Explanation: Truth survives trials.
    Essay tip: Use as a thesis sentence in an integrity-themed answer: sustained truth and institutional transparency.
  • जो गुड़ खाई उ कान छेदाई।
    Explanation: “Who eats jaggery will have pierced ears” — ill deeds produce their own consequences (or guilty will suffer).
    Essay tip: Use to show that illegal gains eventually exact a social/personal price—argument for strict enforcement.
  • घाट-घाट का पानी पी के होखल बड़का संत. (reprise)
    Explanation: Hypocrisy of sanctimony with small gains — people claiming saintliness.
    Essay tip: Use to critique moral posturing in public life.
  • काल्ह के गुन, कल का कहे? (local variants)
    Explanation: Past deeds determine future standing—legacy matters.
    Essay tip: Use to argue for ethical legacy in public policy: institutions built by prior actors influence current outcomes.
  • आपन इज्जत अपनी हाथे में हअ।
    Explanation: Dignity is self-made; personal responsibility for reputation.
    Essay tip: Good opening line for essays on ethics of public service — individuals must uphold integrity.
  • इजती इजते पर मरेला।
    Explanation: “A respectable person dies for reputation” — people sacrifice a lot for honor.
    Essay tip: Use to discuss social pressure & honor culture; relate to gender norms and rights.
  • इहे छउड़ी इहे गाँव — जानबूझ के अनजान बनना
    Explanation: Pretending ignorance deliberately to evade responsibility.
    Essay tip: Use to discuss bureaucratic evasion—procedural shirking; suggest citizen grievance platforms.
  • साँच के आँच नाहीं लागेला
    Explanation: Truth withstands trials — recurring motif (useful as principle).
    Essay tip: Tie to judicial independence & robust accountability mechanisms.
  • इडिल-मिडिल के छोड़ आस, धर खुरपा गढ़ घास।
    Explanation: “If study doesn’t suit, pick a practical job” — practical vocational choice over useless persistence.
    Essay tip: Use to stress vocational training, skill development and value of alternative education paths.
  • घाट-घाट का पानी पी के होखल बड़का संत
    Explanation: One who takes advantage everywhere and pretends saintliness.
    Essay tip: Use to critique performative virtue in public life; call for transparency.
  • जीअत पर छूँछ भात, मरले पर दूध-भात
    Explanation: “Alive: plain food; dead: sweet porridge” — people are honored only after death.
    Essay tip: Use for essays on posthumous honors, tokenism and need for meaningful support in lifetime (pensions, healthcare).
  • घीव के लड्डू, टेढो भला
    Explanation: “A lumpy sweet is still good” — anything obtained is appreciated regardless of quality. Often used to justify accepting small favors.
    Essay tip: Use to discuss patronage politics — small favors buy political loyalty; propose transparency in welfare.
  • घीव देख बाभन नरियात
    Explanation: “At sight of ghee, a Brahmin shouts” — people exaggerate joy when their desire is met.
    Essay tip: Use to discuss incentive-induced behaviour; design policies minimizing rent-seeking.
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